A good way to begin is by asking: "What do you want to be doing in five years?"
If the answer is, "I don't know, I don't have any real plans." That's a clue he's not ambitious. It's also a clue, you'll be supporting him if you stick around.
If his answer is: "A rock star filling arenas."
Your next question should be "So how's that going? You in a band?" If the answer is, "No, not really." That's another clue that you could be working for two. If instead he says, "Oh, yeah, and we just got a record contract." You might want to stick around. You could be in for a fun ride. Or not.
Whatever the answer, the guy will have lots of fun talking about his dreams and think you are one interesting woman.
But if you really want to find the man of your dreams, before you begin the interview, the Southern Belle advises ask yourself, "Where do I want to be in five years?"
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